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Today’s quote is:
“Discipline is helping a child solve a problem. Punishment is making a child suffer for having a problem. To raise problem solvers, focus on solutions, not retribution.” L.R. Knost
This quote is saying that rather than getting “payback,” you should be using discipline to help solve a problem.
A lot of times, we get offended or our pride hurt by our child’s actions. We react to their actions with anger rather than what is best for the moment. It is important to think before you act. Give yourself a time out if needed to cool off and get your head where it needs to be.
Always remember, your child isn’t out to get you. Your child is a little more selfish than that, frankly. When your child disobeys, it is to satisfy your child’s own wants, not to say, “Ha! I am going to get mom good on this one!” Some actions are done to get your attention, but again, it isn’t to get to you, it is to get your attention. Get you to pay attention.
Your job is to help your child learn what was wrong and have a proper consequence to help your child remember to not do it again in the future. Remember, solutions, not retribution.
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