Disciple Delay Tactics {BFBN Discipline Week}

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” “I’m going to count to three! One….two….three….four…

“If you don’t come here right now, you’re going to get a spanking!”

“You don’t want to come? Okay, I’m leaving without you… here we go….I’m walking out the door…”

These, among many others, are discipline delay tactics. On the surface, the purpose of these statements is to offer the child a second chance to obey, but in actuality the point is release the parent from the responsibility of disciplining. Discipline isn’t fun for the child or the parent, so they are hoping to avoid it by giving the child more opportunities to obey.”

Ouch! Does that hit close to home? Does that prick your heart as a parent? Sometimes our intentions (wanting to give the child a second chance) are really fulfilling an unintended life lesson that we don’t actually want to teach.

Today Cole is talking about Discipline Delay Tactics and how to achieve first time obedience instead of delays. 

The ladies of the Babywise Friendly Blog Network are all blogging on discipline this week. Check them out on these days:

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Valerie, also known as The Babywise Mom, is the mother to four children. She has been blogging on Babywise and general parenting since 2007. She has a degree in technical writing and loves using those skills to help parents be the best parents they can be! Read her book, The Babywise Mom Nap Guide, to get help on sleep from birth through the preschool years. You can also find her writing at Babywise.life, Today Parenting, and Her View From Home. Read more about Valerie and her family on the About page. Follow her on FacebookPinterest, and Instagram for more tips and helps.

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