Parenting Preteens: Tips Parents Need

The preteen, or tween, age range can be a bit of a roller coaster. This is the 8-12 year range. As your child gets older in this range and hits puberty, parenting will become more challenging. During preteen, or tween, years, your child will once again start to change a lot. There will be physical, mental, and emotional changes.

Brinley as a preteen looking off to the side
Tween and mom. Tween is being twirrled.

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Teach Tweens to Have Respect

We all want our kids to respect us as well as other people in their lives. Find out what exactly is respect, why it is important, and steps you can take to teach your kids to have respect.

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Weekend Routines for Older Kids

As your kids get older, you wonder what a weekend routine should look like. This post outlines what to consider in your weekend routine, from morning wake up time to bedtime. It also goes over different activities to do and responsibilities to include your child’s weekend.

8.5 year old Brayden at the corn maze

Preteen Summaries

I have summaries for each of my four children throughout their preteen age range years. These can help you see what is typical and what kind of issues will come up. I also include sample schedules in each summary!

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Cell Phone Rules for Teens and Tweens

As you get your tween or teen a cell phone, establish rules about where they can be used, rules for before and after school, expectations at school, rules for apps, and other good rules to establish with your teenagers and preteens.

9 year old doing chores

Chores for Preteens

Looking for some age-appropriate chores for your child? I have posts for your 8 year old, 9 year old, 10 year old, and 11 year old here.

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Getting Kids to Talk and Open Up to You

Get actionable tips and steps you can take to get your kids to open up and talk to you. Learn how to implement it into your life and build your bond with your kids.

Tween on the couch with a tablet

When Can a Child Stay Home Alone?

When is a child ready to stay home alone? What is a good age? What are some readiness signs? What are good rules to establish?

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Tween excited for a gift

Best Tween Gift Ideas They ACTUALLY Want!

Over 32 gift ideas for tweens! Find the perfect gift idea for the preteen in your life with this helpful gift guide!

Tween girl sleeping

Sleep Tips and Needs for Teens and Tweens

Learn how many hours of sleep a tween or teen needs, what time bedtime should be, why sleep is still important, and how to help your child get great sleep in these age groups.

teen looking like she feels left out of a group of other teens

How to Respond to “Everyone Else is Doing It”

How to Respond to “Everyone Else is Doing It” Avoid peer pressure from your parent peers, whether real or perceived. Stick to your family rules.

Child putting on deodorant

Deodorant and Children: When to expect body odor

Find out when to expect body odor in your kids. You will also find a list of good deodorants for young children to use.

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Truths About Parenting Tweens You Should Know

10 Truths About Parenting Tweens You Should Know. What to expect when parenting tween girl or parenting tween boy. Also known as preteen years.

22 Chapter Books for Tweens

22 Chapter Books for PreTeens {Ages 8-12}

Get a list of great chapter books for tweens! This is a great list of books you can feel good about your tween reading. If your tween is into fantasy novels, be sure to check out my Tween Fantasy book list.

Brayden as a preteen

How to Correct Your Preteen

Get 8 helpful tips for how to correct your preteen (and how NOT to do so). These eight tips can help guide you in your need to correct your preteen.

Recent Preteen Age Range Posts

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Tween Age Range

Here is all of the information for parenting 8-12 year olds that you need broken down into categories.

Book Lists

Chores

Preteen Schedules and Sleep

See also preteen summaries linked below

Tween Age Range Play Time, Toys, and Gift Guides

Child Age Range Education

Tween Age Range Discipline

>>>Read more about discipline and correction here

Tween Age Range Tips and Advice

Preteen Summaries

>>>See all of my tween age range posts here

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