Learn effective ways to correct your children and teach them to obey. You can start obedience teaching as young as with your baby! Learn tips for correcting and training children of all ages, from baby through teen years.
Discipline 101: The basics of correcting children
When correcting your children and teaching them to listen to you, there are some basic things you need to know. This post has simple things parents can do to help their children learn to obey and behave.
Teaching Your Baby to Listen to “No”
Did you know you can actually get a baby to listen to you when you tell them no? And if it works for a baby, it works for toddlers, too! Teaching your baby to listen to the word “no” is possible! Baby can understand what no means and respond appropriately. This post discusses how to accomplish this.
The Screaming Non-Verbal Baby/Toddler
As your little one gets older, you will find you face many fits because your little one just can’t communicate yet. Tips for stopping the tantrums, screaming, and crying when you have a non-verbal toddler. Often these tantrums stem from frustration for lack of ability to communicate.
Help with Tantrums
While tantrums are very normal, that does not mean you have to let them happen without any sort of a response. There are many layers to dealing with a tantrum.
Natural Consequences vs. Grace for Kids
Consequences are super effective in teaching children to listen and follow the rules. When your child makes a mistake or disobeys, should you always apply natural or logical consequences or should you use grace? Find out in this post.
Should You Give Your Teenager a Curfew?
Benefits of Teaching Kids to Deal With Consequences
Parenting With Love and Logic: Everything You Need to Know
All The Help Parents Need for Consequences
How to Quickly Think of a Logical Consequence for Kids
Logical Consequences for Throwing Toys
The Power of “Yes Mommy”
One of the best methods for getting kids to listen to you is using “Yes, Mommy.” This is an effective solution to get first-time obedience. Requiring that simple response can change how well your child listens to you.
How to Get Your Child to Obey with a Simple “Yes Mommy”
Utilizing “Ask and Tell” to Get Your Kids to Obey in Public
8 Ways to Use Positive Reinforcement for Good Behavior
How I Discipline Without Spanking
Allow Your Child to Surrender with Dignity
Using Encouragement as a Discipline Tool
Phrases To Help You Keep Your Cool
It can be hard to keep your own emotional response in check when your children do not listen. These phrases help you keep your cool and avoid losing your own temper as well as giving you a quick method to turn to in a heated moment. 7 Phrases That Help You Avoid Losing Your Temper as a Parent. Have these phrases ready to use so you can respond with patience and consistency.
A Simple One-Liner To Keep Your Preschooler On Track
A Simple One-Liner to Stop Whining in its Tracks
Discipline Phrase: “You don’t have the freedom to…”
7 Phrases To Help You Avoid Losing Your Temper as a Parent
Discipline Phrase: “I didn’t ask if you wanted to…”
Teach Kids What is Right, Not Just What is Wrong
Strong Willed Kids
A strong-willed child can be difficult to parent, but there are many things to love about having a strong-willed child. Read for my top 6.
Book Review: Parenting the Strong-Willed Child
How to Get Your Child to Dress Quickly
What Does it Mean to be “Strong-Willed”?
8 Factors That Influence Your Child’s Behavior
How to Stop Aggression in Children
How to Discipline Your Strong-Willed Child
Recent Discipline Posts
Discipline Methods for Parents
All The Help Parents Need for Consequences
Should You Give Your Teenager a Curfew?
Should You Correct Kids for Attitude?
Distraction as a Discipline Tool: Tips for Parents
What Does it Mean to be “Strong-Willed”?
More Discipline Help
Teaching Your Kids to Have Charity
How to Manage a Bossy Child
Building Positive Self- Esteem in Your Strong-Willed Child
Teaching Kids to Be Moral Before They Understand Why
How To Easily Get Your Child To Do What You Say
How to Teach Respect for Personal Property
How to Successfully Parent Your Strong-Willed Child
6 Important Takeaways from the Book “Making Children Mind”
How to Allow Children to Feel Without Acting Out
Parenting Pre-Toddlers Goal: Simply Don’t Lose Ground
Overstimulation in Toddlers: What To Do
How You Should Respond to Frustration Tantrums
How to Quickly Think of a Logical Consequence for Kids
Correcting Children: Look at “Why” not just “What”
How to Stop a Tantrum: Address the Choice Addiction
Correcting and Teaching Babies
- Baby Mealtime Offenses (and Your Defenses)
- Child-Proofing vs. House-Proofing
- Discipline Foundations for Your Baby
- Discipline Methods for Baby: 10 Months and up
- How to Keep Your Kiddo Still for Diaper Changes
- How to Know What Freedoms to Give Baby
- How to Stop Baby From Throwing/Dropping
- How to Teach Your Baby Highchair Manners
- House-Proofing: Pick Your Battles
- “Mom, not baby, decides…”: What that means
- Should You Baby-Proof Your Christmas Tree?
- Teaching Your Baby to Listen to “No”
- The Screaming Non-Verbal Baby/Toddler
- Tips for Baby-Proofing Your Home
- Why You Can Give Your Baby Rules and Boundaries
Correcting and Teaching Toddlers
- Toddler Tantrums are Very Normal
- Parenting Pre-Toddlers Goal: Simply Don’t Lose Ground
- More is Caught Than Taught with Pre-Toddlers
- The “Mini-fit”: Responding to Young Tantrums
- How to Deal with Toddler Tantrums
- How to Handle an Aggressive Toddler
- How to Stop a Tantrum: Address the Choice Addiction
- How To Teach Your Child to Come When Called
- How to Use Substitution for Toddler Discipline
- No Use Crying Over Spilled Milk…Or Is There?
- Overstimulation for Toddlers
- Parenting Toddlers: a Critical Phase of Learning
- Teaching Kids to Behave at the Library
- Teach Your Children While They are Young
- The Screaming Non-Verbal Baby/Toddler
- Training Toddlers: Actions Precede Beliefs
- Valuable Discipline Tips for Toddlers
- You’re Being Too Easy if Toddler’s Not Throwing Tantrums
- Why You Should Teach Your Toddler to Have Self-Control NOW
- What to do When Your Child Yells and Screams
- What To Do When Your Toddler/Child is Getting Out of Bed
- Wise In Your Own Eyes Explained
Discipline Information
- 5 Rules for Giving Kids Instructions
- Benefits of Structure and Routine
- Childishness vs. Foolishness: Responding When Kids Disobey
- Considerations for Correction
- The “D” Word: Is Discipline Good or Bad?
- Discipline is Not Instant Gratification
- Discipline Methods for Parents
- Discipline Without Taking Yourself Too Seriously
- Fair vs. Equal
- How To Avoid Being the “Super Parent”
- How to Prepare Your Child for Great Behavior in Public
- How to Respond When Your Kiddo Tells You “No”
- How to Set Boundaries for Children & Siblings
- How To Teach Your Child to Come When Called
- How Your Child’s Behavior is Tied to Food and Sleep
- Making Children Mind…Show Love
- Obedience Is Just the Beginning
- Parenting Skills: Look to Yourself First
- Positive Discipline
- Proactive and Directive Parenting
- Selfishness and Rebellion Are Not Outgrown
- Start as You Mean to Go On as a Parent
- Teaching Obedience is a Step-by-step Process
- The Problem with Constantly Needing to Correct a Child
- The Problem with Credit Card Parenting
- Tips to Find Your Child’s Currency for Obedience
- Understanding Why vs. How When Parenting
- What “The Ant and the Grasshopper” Teaches about Discipline
- What to Do When Discipline is Not Working
- A Biblical Reason for Teaching Kids to Obey
- 6 Important Takeaways from the Book “Making Children Mind”
Correcting and Teaching Preschoolers
- A Simple One-Liner To Keep Your Preschooler On Track
- How to Manage a Bossy Child
- How To Respond to Your Emotional Preschooler
- The Problem with Constantly Needing to Correct a Child
- How to Correct Your Child in a Really Positive Way
- Teach Kids “Why” (no “because I said so”)
- Yes When You Can, No When You Must
- Wise In Your Own Eyes Explained
Correcting and Teaching Kids, Tweens, and Teens
- Kindertude
- How to Respond to “Everyone Else is Doing It”
- 5 “I Statements” To Teach Your Child
- Correcting Children: Look at “Why” not just “What”
- Finding Balance When Protecting Children
- How To Stop Backtalk Now (and prevent it in the future)
- How to Manage a Bossy Child
- How to Stop Aggression in Children
- Don’t Be Your Child’s Scapegoat
- Getting Children to Obey the First Time
- How to Allow Children to Feel Without Acting Out
- Know When to Use Leadership and Authority in Parenting
- Let Your Child Pick the Consequence for Actions
- Should You Bail Your Child Out?
- Should You Correct for Attitude?
- Teaching Kids to Behave at the Library
- Understanding Accidental Behavior
- When Kids Push The Limits (Dos and Don’ts)
- Why I Hate the Concept of Everyone Wins
- Why I Hate the Phrase “Boys Will Be Boys”
- Why Kids Lie (and what to do about it)
- Why You Need to Share Control with Your Child
- Why You Should Let Your Children Be Bored
- Wise In Your Own Eyes Explained
- How to Correct Your Preteen
- How To Successfully Combat Teen Attitude
Emotions
- How To Help Your Child Work Through Emotions
- Handling Explosions in Emotionally Intense Kids
- How To Respond to Your Emotional Preschooler
- The Perfect Way to Respond to a Dramatic Child
- How to Allow Children to Feel Without Acting Out
First Time Obedience
- Discipline 101: The basics of correcting children
- First-Time Obedience: Balance the Good with the Bad
- First Time Obedience–First Things First
- Getting Children to Obey the First Time
- How Often Can You Really Expect a Child to Obey
- How to Get Your Child to Obey with a Simple “Yes Mommy”
- How To Teach Your Child to Come When Called
- Obedience Is Just the Beginning
- Take baby steps to get first-time obedience
- Teach Kids What Obedience Looks Like
- Teaching Obedience to a Child with Special Needs
- Train To Obey Your Voice
- Commanding Obedience within Reason
Discipline and Siblings
- How to Set Boundaries for Children & Siblings
- How to Keep Siblings in the Funnel
- How to Respond to Siblings Fighting
- How To Teach Children to Share
- Making Children Mind…Siblings Fighting
- The Perfect Hugging Rule For Siblings
- Why I Don’t Let My Children Fight
Funnel
- Commanding Obedience within Reason
- Finding Balance When Protecting Children
- How to Keep Siblings in the Funnel
- How to Know What Freedoms to Give Baby
- How to Set Boundaries for Children & Siblings
- How to Teach a Child How to Make Decisions
- How Too Many Freedoms Leads to Disobedience
- Start as You Mean to Go On as a Parent
- The Problem with Constantly Needing to Correct a Child
- Why Toddlers Really Need Boundaries
- Wise In Your Own Eyes Explained
Whining
- How To Respond When Your Child Says “I’m Bored!”
- A Simple One-Liner to Stop Whining in its Tracks
- How to Deal with a Whining Child
- Structure Deters a Child’s Whining
- Yes When You Can, No When You Must
Moral Training
- A Simple Method for Teaching Positive Behavior
- Building Character
- Evaluating and Teaching Context to Your Kids
- Hey Parents! Moral Training Starts With You
- Helping Kids Stay on the Moral Path
- How to Teach Your Child to Love Others
- How I Learned The Value of Forgiveness
- How to Teach Respect for Personal Property
- How You Might Be Hurting Your Child’s Conscience
- Nurturing and Developing Your Child’s Conscience
- Importance of Teaching Morals
- The Importance of Accepting Personal Responsibility
- Instill Morality in Your Kids and Good Behavior Will Follow
- I’m Sorry vs. Please Forgive Me: Helping Kids Apologize
- Is Modesty Worth Discussing?
- Loving Others and Having Charity
- Moral Training: Love
- Mistakes with Shaping Influences When Raising Kids
- Preventing Jealousy
- Quotable Mondays: Jealousy
- Start Your Child’s Moral Training at Age 3
- Teach Kids “Why” (no “because I said so”)
- Teaching Children that Other People Count
- Teaching Children to Speak Nicely and Honestly {THINK}
- Teaching Kids the Golden Rule (and the Platinum Rule)
- Teaching Kids to Be Moral Before They Understand Why
- Teaching Your Kids to Have Charity
- Tips for Teaching Your Kids Morals
- Your Child’s Behavior Reflects the Heart
- Why We Require Apologies Even for Accidents
- Why Bother to Forgive Others?
- Why Teach Virtue?
- Mamas, Let’s Be Thankful for Everything We Do Have
- Importance of Showing Gratitude
- Talking Gratitude
- Train Your Child to Have Good Character (even if it is hard)
- Quotable Mondays: How To Have Gratitude
- Quotable Mondays: Gratitude
- A Babywise Kid with A Good Heart
- Teach to Your Child’s Character Traits {Guest Post}
- How To Teach Children About Christ All Year
- How To Help Kids Memorize Scriptures
- Teaching the Gospel in Your Home
- How to Create a Prayer Journal For Kids
- Building Faithful Testimony in Children
Consequences
- 10 Guidelines for Using Logical Consequences
- Benefits of Teaching Kids to Deal With Consequences
- Consequences: Natural VS Logical and How to Use Each
- How to Quickly Think of a Logical Consequence for Kids
- How To Respond When Your Child has a Public Tantrum
- How to Respond When Your Kiddo Tells You “No”
- Logical Consequences for Throwing Toys
- Logical Consequences to Stop Kids Hitting and Biting
- Making Sure Consequences Actually Work for Kids
- Natural Consequences vs. Grace for Kids
- Parenting With Love and Logic: Everything You Need to Know
- Why You Need to Allow Kids to Make Mistakes
Discipline Methods
- 10 Uses For a Timer That Will Make Parenting Easier
- A Simple One-Liner To Keep Your Preschooler On Track
- Allow Your Child to Surrender with Dignity
- Discipline Methods for Parents
- Discipline Strategy: Think Prevention First
- Distraction as a Discipline Tool
- Hand Folding: Establishing Self-Control
- How I Discipline Without Spanking
- How to Keep Your Kiddo Still for Diaper Changes
- How to Get Your Child to Obey with a Simple “Yes Mommy”
- How To Use Time-Out Effectively
- How to Get Your Child to Dress Quickly
- Imagination as a Tool for Correction
- Love and Logic Magic: Using Empathy for Discipline
- Making Children Mind…Encouragement vs. Reward
- Restaurant Manners {Dining Out With Children}
- Teach Kids What is Right, Not Just What is Wrong
- Teaching Obedience to a Child with Special Needs
- Training in Times of Non-Conflict
- Using Encouragement as a Discipline Tool
- Utilizing “Ask and Tell” to Get Your Kids to Obey in Public
- Why Prevention is a Powerful Parenting Tool
- 8 Ways to Use Positive Reinforcement for Good Behavior
- Prepping for the Dentist using Training In Non-Conflict + Ask & Tell
- Two Things You Can Do To Avoid Yelling At Your Kids
Discipline Phrases and One-Liners
- 7 Phrases To Help You Avoid Losing Your Temper as a Parent
- A Simple One-Liner to Stop Whining in its Tracks
- Discipline Phrase: “I didn’t ask if you wanted to…”
- Discipline Phrase: “You don’t have the freedom to…”
- How to Get Your Child to Obey with a Simple “Yes Mommy”
- How To Respond When Your Child Says “I’m Bored!”
- A Simple One-Liner To Keep Your Preschooler On Track
- The Perfect Response for a Defiant Child
- The Perfect Way to Respond to a Dramatic Child
- You Don’t Have to Like It, But You Do Have to Eat It
Strong-Willed Children
- A Common, Yet Unknown, Cause of Disobedience
- 8 Factors That Influence Your Child’s Behavior
- Building Positive Self- Esteem in Your Strong-Willed Child
- Having Patience with a Strong-Willed Child
- How to Discipline Your Strong-Willed Child
- How to Communicate With Your Strong-Willed Child
- How to Stop Aggression in Children
- 6 Things I Love About Having a Strong-Willed Child
- Raising Difficult Children
- When One Child is Harder Than the Other(s)
- Why Your Strong-Willed Child NEEDS You to Keep Promises
Tantrums
- Does Your Tantruming Child Need More Love?
- How to Deal with Toddler Tantrums
- Controlling the Young Temper
- How to Stop a Tantrum: Address the Choice Addiction
- How You Should Respond to Frustration Tantrums
- The “Mini-fit”: Responding to Young Tantrums
- The Screaming Non-Verbal Baby/Toddler
- Tips for Avoiding and Responding to Tantrums
- Toddler Tantrums are Very Normal
- How To Respond When Your Child has a Public Tantrum
- When Your Child Has a Tantrum, Stop and Think
Encouragement for Parents
- Don’t Stress Mama: Good Behavior Progress is a Spiral
- 3 Reasons YOU Get To Be In Charge Parents
- You Really Need to Understand Why You Do What You Do
- Making Wise Choices in the Heat of the Moment