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Valerie, also known as The Babywise Mom, is the mother to four children. She has been blogging on Babywise and general parenting since 2007. She has a degree in technical writing and loves using those skills to help parents be the best parents they can be! Read her book, The Babywise Mom Nap Guide, to get help on sleep from birth through the preschool years. You can also find her writing at Babywise.life, Today Parenting, and Her View From Home. Read more about Valerie and her family on the About page. Follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram for more tips and helps.

How To Help Your Spouse Succeed as a Dad in a Non-nagging Way

December 3, 2024May 26, 2016 by valplowman

Dad holding his son up and both are laughting

How to help your spouse succeed as a father without nagging. Nagging can make it all worse, so here are tips for encouraging positively! For years, the stereotype of the …

5 Ways to Stay Motivated as a Mother

May 18, 2026May 18, 2016 by valplowman

Valerie with her four kids surrounding her

Motherhood can feel exhausting and repetitive, especially in the little years. This post shares practical ways to stay motivated as a mom when the days feel long, the work feels …

Teaching New Skills During Summer

May 18, 2026May 17, 2016 by valplowman

Children learning to sew little stuffed animals

Summer is the perfect time to teach kids practical life skills without the pressure of school schedules. This post shares why summer works so well for learning new skills and …

5 Reasons To Do Summer Camps (and 3 Reasons Not To)

May 18, 2026May 16, 2016 by valplowman

3 children holding a sign with the words "summer camp" on it with checked yes or no boxes

Wondering if summer camp is worth it? This post shares practical reasons camps can help kids grow in confidence, independence, and friendships — plus a few reasons camp may not …

Habits of a Successful Stay at Home Mom

May 11, 2026May 12, 2016 by valplowman

Moom giving her daughter a piggy back ride

Feeling overwhelmed as a stay-at-home mom? These simple habits can help you feel more productive, joyful, and in control of your day—from creating routines to giving yourself grace. Read the …

Fighting the Body Image Battle for Our Daughters

May 11, 2026May 11, 2016 by valplowman

Mom and daughter looking in a mirror together

Body image struggles can start young—but parents can make a difference. Learn practical ways to help your daughters build confidence, value their bodies, and fight unhealthy messages from the world …

Brinley Preschooler Summary: 45 Months Old

May 11, 2026May 10, 2016 by valplowman

Nate, Brinley, and Valerie outside with mountains in the background

Wondering what life with a 45-month-old looks like? See Brinley’s real preschooler routine, favorite toys, sleep habits, independence struggles, and daily schedule. A fun glimpse into life with a growing …