How Babywisemom.com Got Started…Reflections

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A walk down memory lane to discuss how and why babywisemom.com got started. Learn what sparked the whole thing in this post!

Babywise Mom and her family

I am not really one to celebrate “blogiversaries.” Not that I am against it at all, it just doesn’t really occur to me. I was just thinking that I started this blog in November two years ago. I looked what date my first post was, and I see it was November 20. SO…too late to celebrate on the exact day, but we are within the same month. I thought I would tell you a bit about the beginnings of this blog and take a little trip down memory lane. I know some of you have been around since the beginning, and others just found this blog today. Here is the story…

A little less than 2.5 years ago, I decided to look up information on Babywise online. I have no idea why it never occurred to me to do this before that, but it never had. Kaitlyn was two months old. It started with me searching for information about reflux since she had reflux, but I found that none of it really was applicable to me since I did Babywise. I wasn’t having problems like others did out there. So I started looking around for Babywise and reflux.

Boy was I surprised! I basically only found negative information out there! I didn’t understand that; I had never had issues with Babywise before. Through all of my searching, however, I did find a Yahoo! group for Babywise moms with babies born about the time of Kaitlyn. I was excited to be able to talk to other moms who did Babywise.

I quickly discovered that I was one of only a few moms who had more than one child, so rather than asking questions, I was answering them. Over the next five months, I started to answer the same questions over and over and over again. Any of you who have spent time in an online community know that is common–whether Babywise or not. I started saving some of the “stock” answers on my computer and would just paste the answers as the questions got asked again.

In the meantime, several of my friends started getting into blogging. They were just doing it to stay connected and keep each other updated on their lives. I thought that looked fun and started doing it, too. I started a family blog. About a month and a half later, it occurred to me one night that I should just create a Babywise blog and publish my “stock” answers on there. That was November 20, 2007. I started with a post about me, then over the next few days compiled and posted basic, common answers. These included information about reflux, swaddling, CIO, consistent schedules, and waketime when baby wakes early.

I put a few posts up, then the holidays came and I got busy with all that entails. About a month later, I remembered about my new little blog and came to check on it. To my surprise, I had some comments on it! As I checked out the comments, I saw most were from a gal I now know to be a Babywise dissenter. She started asking innocent questions, which I answered, and soon discovered she had much to say :). At that point, I decided I had better stick to this blog.

I didn’t want all of the information online to be negative. I wanted a positive place for parents to come and find answers to their difficulties. I wanted them to know they were not alone, and that they can get through it. I wanted to help people, because people like Tulipgirl were out there putting forth much energy into bashing Babywise.

So, I started publishing like crazy! I let my Yahoo! group friends know that I had this blog. I then searched out another online community (then known as Mayas Mom) and let them know about it. I fell into a groove of publishing. At first, I tried to just publish things extremely pertinent to Babywise. Over time, the blog has grown into a one-stop location for parents who follow Babywise. I try to cover parenting in all its realms, from diapers, to gas pain, to educating children.

Before I started this blog, when you googled “babywise,” you basically found nothing but negative information. Now when you google “babywise,” this blog is on the first page! And here we are today, two years later. Funny to think that it really started up thanks to a major Babywise basher. How sad she will be to know that she is what really got this going ūüôā Funny how out of adversity, great things can happen ūüôā

Reader Thank Yous

In the spirit of Thanksgiving, I thought I would post some of the reader thank-yous. I really appreciate all of the thank-yous. They make all of the effort worth it.

  • Meredith¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you so much for this blog ‚Äď It is so useful to me.
  • Kate¬†said‚Ķ
    Hi!I just found your blog a few days ago. Your entries are very encouraging. Thanks for taking the time to write your experiences. They are sincerely appreciated by this new mama.
  • Lindsay¬†said‚Ķ
    I just found your blog and I have to say Thanks. THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU! I have read Babywise, but your blog has really helped me! I’m so glad you do this! I have been looking for answers, reassurance, whatever on naps and your blog finally put me at ease. Thanks again!!

    Plowmanators said…
    You are so welcome! Thanks for saying thanks‚Äďit makes all my time worth it!
  • AquaNet¬†said‚Ķ
    Hello Val,I really enjoy your blog on babywise. Thanks for taking time to share your experience.
  • John and Amanda¬†said‚Ķ
    I love your blog! Oh how I wish I had stumbled across this 6.5 months ago! I couldn‚Äôt ever find anything positive (or helpful) about¬†BW¬†anywhere on the Internet! I‚Äôve been winging it!This is such a great idea and resource! Thank you for investing your time and experiences with all of us! I am a huge advocate of¬†BW! I knew I would use it before I was ever even pregnant! I introduced it to several friends who were pregnant at the same time as me, too! It seems all their baby‚Äôs took to¬†BW¬†to a T. My little guy took a little¬†more¬†figuring out before we got it right with the whole sleep training thing. I use¬†BW¬†in combination with Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Child. That book was very helpful to me in my sleep training issues where I felt¬†BW¬†let me hanging! I am starting to implement¬†BW¬†II. I love¬†BW¬†II and look forward to reading more of your blogs as you work through it all with Kaitlyn! It‚Äôs always nice to see what other moms are doing and what is working for them! Thank you again for sharing your experiences! I will likely be a regular reader!!! ūüôā God Bless!
  • Mom2Cohen¬†said‚Ķ
    I love your blog as well…it has really helped support our decision to do BW.
  • Nanny4Two¬†said‚Ķ
    I want to thank you for writing such a imfortaive blog about YOUR experinace w/ babywise.
  • Bethany¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you so much for this website! I have a 4 week old and have been trying to follow BW methods but still have so many questions. My BW book is a permanent fixture on my coffee table for frequent reference. I truly appreciate a website I can reference for additional help. By the way, BW is not the only book ever written that uses this method, but it seems to be the only one that gets blasted.
  • Beth¬†said‚Ķ
    I love your blog and your approach to BW. I have found lots of valuable and helpful information here! Thank you!
  • Nanny4Two¬†said‚Ķ
    Plowmanators, thank you;=)Your doing a great thing for mom’s and nannies by writing a imforative blog like this, it really helps out women who find BW to be very successful.
  • Micoise¬†said‚Ķ
    First, thanks for your blog. I have been reading it since my twins were born 11/9/07, and it has been a huge help.
  • Jessica¬†said‚Ķ
    Hi BWMOM.Just found your blog. Thanks for doing this. I have a friend who lives in another state and has read BW but didn’t get all the fun we did locally of classes, etc. She has a reflux baby at 3 weeks and she falls asleep really fast. I am so happy that I can look up info for her here. My son is 13 months, so a lot of this has escaped my mind. Thanks, and keep up the good work.

    Plowmanators said…
    I am also one of those in a state with no classes. I am glad to help!
  • Courtney¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you so much for your blog. I really appreciate the help.
  • jahanschen¬†said‚Ķ
    This comment is not related to the post, I just wanted to let you know I happened upon your blog today when looking online for more Babywise-centered parenting groups. I‚Äôve been perusing your archives, and I really appreciate all the advice and explanation of Babywise principles you‚Äôve provided. I especially like your series disclaiming the Babywise Myths since I‚Äôve also run into those so many times. People do not want to take the time to actually read the book and make decisions for themselves as to the value of the principles in it. I had a mother tell me that her pediatrician told her not to do BW because it would kill her newborn. She had never actually cracked the cover of the book‚Äďjust asked others about it, and in doing so lost out on the benefits and had a 4 month old who was underweight, constipated, and never went longer than 2 hours before feeding (snacking). Anyway, thank you for your efforts. I also enjoy the non-BW posts. I am a SAHM with a BA in English. I taught for a few years before having my baby, and always identify with other English majors (and our love for reading!). Keep up the good work ūüôā

    Plowmanators said…
    I am glad you are enjoying the blog! It is always good to hear so I know the work is worth it!
  • artsychic76¬†said‚Ķ
    Thanks for this post [Combating Babywise Myths: Go 3 hours between feedings no matter what ]!! I have a book called Baby 411 and I really dislike the viewpoints of the Pediatrician who wrote it. I finally tossed the book when she bashed Babywise and said that it says to put your newborn on a 3 hr schedule, which we all know is WRONG. She obviously didn’t do her research. She also made me feel guilty that I couldn’t breastfeed for long; something my OWN pediatrician does not do, she supports my decision to formula feed and we love her for it! Our baby is healthy, smart, happy and thriving AND sleeping well, thanks to BW. Thanks for all you do, Val. Its much appreciated!!
  • kindra¬†said‚Ķ Oh I appreciate your defense of¬†BW¬†so much! As a mom of a happy, healthy 6 month¬†BW¬†baby girl, I am so sick of¬†BW¬†bashing! I love that you have this blog here to help us other mom‚Äôs out in the way of advice and questions. I gave up on looking for a¬†BW¬†question and answer forum, because like you said as soon as you Google it, all you find is how terrible it is. So again, thank you.
  • Sara Louise!¬†said‚Ķ
    Thanks so much for your blog- I have found it to be so helpful!
  • david,¬†blair, and¬†sadie¬†beth¬†said‚Ķ
    This is a great blog! Thank you for taking the time to post so much helpful info.
  • Amy¬†said‚Ķ
    Thanks! all your blogs have been very helpful to me. sometimes i think a question i have is ridiculous and then i see you have a blog about it and feel so much better lol! i am going to try leaving one arm out of the swaddle and see what happens!

    Plowmanators said…
    Amy, I am glad you have been able to find your answers‚Äďwe have all had those questions! ūüôā
  • Becky & Scott¬†said‚Ķ
    I just found you too! I’m sooo glad I did! I felt like I had no one to talk to about BW!
  • susie¬†said‚Ķ
    I read your blog page daily. It is sooo helpul. I love all the topics.
  • susie¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you. This will be my goal for the week. I love reading your blogs daily as another resource and much support for our family. Anyways, I love all your blogs! They are so HELPFUL! Susie
  • Catherine¬†said‚Ķ
    Hi Valerie,Thank you so much for this blog. It has helped me and my son tremendously!
  • The¬†Pinnt‚Äôs¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank You so much Val, I am here via Mayasmom. You posted this as a suggestion for one of my questions about Pulling Up. I’ve started to get frustrated but reading this makes me feel a lot better, thank you! I know you’ve heard it a ton but Ill say it again. Your blog is a life/sanity saver! =)

    Plowmanators said…
    You are welcome! I am glad to help. Luckily for me, Kaitlyn hasn‚Äôt started to pull up in her bed yet. I am hoping the older she is when she does it, the less of a disruption it will be. Rolling was a big disruption for her, but sitting up hasn‚Äôt been. Maybe she is over the disruption thing? ūüėČ
  • momtobobby¬†said‚Ķ
    Great advice! I am so in love with this site! I’m soo glad that I found this blog, you have no idea:) I am constantly consulting BW thinking that there will be something in there that i have missed. This site is heaven sent!
  • Catherine¬†said‚Ķ Hi Valerie,Thanks¬†sooo¬†much for all your energy and help! I am so thankful I found this blog.
  • Jennifer¬†said‚Ķ
    I LOVE your blog. I just wish I would have found it sooner. Thanks again for this wonderful resource.

    Jennifer said…
    Thanks! We are working on it right now! I appreciate your time and help.
  • sarah¬†said‚Ķ
    Thanks! I love your blog.
  • Cristine¬†said‚Ķ
    I’m so glad I found this site! I live in Brazil, but got introduced to babywise by my brother and sister-in-law who live in the US. I read Babywise and tried to implement it on my baby since birth. I had a hard time with a lot of things, but was persistent. I am so glad I tried though, and although I still have a lot to learn, I already see many benefits to everything I was able to do! My baby is now 13 weeks old, he is able to sleep on his own, he’s going through a period of 45 minute intruder of naps and is still waking at 3 AM to eat..but I’m working on these things! I am searching for advice here like crazy! I love it! I wish I had found it sooner, since I felt many times like I had no one to talk to about BW (my sister-in-law was of great help though). THANK YOU!

    Plowmanators said…
    Cristine,Thanks for the thanks, I am glad you found it!
  • Shana¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you for your post. It is so nice to hear a fellow BW mom sharing my struggle.

    Plowmanators said…
    You are welcome!
  • Fortibus¬†Marketing of Charleston, L.L.C¬†said‚Ķ
    Hello!! You are an angel, thank you for you blog!!

    Plowmanators said…
    Oh, and thanks for the thanks!
  • David and Joelle Turner‚Äôs Blog¬†said‚ĶHi. I have found your website to be VERY helpful! I have spent all morning looking for a resource on¬†Babywise¬†like this. Thank you!
  • mommytoisabella¬†said‚Ķ
    Thank you for your advice. I really do appreciate you blog and the time and effort you put in to help mommies out.
  • Tim & Jamie¬†said‚Ķ Thank you for your blog I read it all the time and look to it for some great insight as I navigate my way through the first year of my childs life.
  • lsmith¬†said‚Ķ
    I enjoy reading your blog for the helpful information
  • Amy¬†said‚ĶOh, thank you so much for your answer to Lindsay‚Äôs question. I am having the same problem. Also, thank you thank you thank you for this blog. The books are amazing, but I needed more. So this really helps.
  • Ashley & Rhett¬†said‚Ķlove your blog! it is so helpful for this 1st time mom trying to be successful with BW!
  • January¬†said‚Ķ
    Okay, first of all, LOVE the blog! It’s so nice to have someone answering the questions before I even ask them!
  • The Todd‚Äôs¬†said‚Ķ
    My friend and I really enjoyed reading the information you have on this site. You have done an outstanding job with so much info. provided.
  • Brian and chelsea¬†said‚Ķ
    I just want too say how excited I am to find this blog/website! My good friend told me about it. Im new to Babywise, but so far believe it could be just what we need. Cant wait to learn more! Thankyou, Valerie, for volunteering your time and knowledge to help others.
  • The Burkes¬†said‚Ķ
    This blog site is an absolute treasure! Thank you so much for being willing to serve others with your experiences and advice!! I’ve passed it on to several Moms.
  • Lucie¬†said‚ĶFirst, let me say I am so thankful to have found your blog and owe you a HUGE THANK YOU for taking the time to share your experiences with all of us. I have spent over a week looking through and reading your blog! It is very thorough.Jaclyn¬†said‚ĶThanks for your sharing your wisdom and experiences. For a first time mom, it‚Äôs a HUGE blessing!
  • Jaciblessedwife_mom¬†said‚ĶThis blog is such a wonderful resource. Thank you for all of your great topics.
  • The Lewis Farm¬†said‚ĶI have a question on morning naps. First off, I have to extend a sincere, very deep from the bottom of my heart THANK YOU for this blog. It has been helpful more than I could ever explain to you. You are heaven-sent!
    Plowmanators said…
    Kelly, you are welcome! Thanks for the thanks.
  • Katiejojohnson¬†said‚ĶHello. I want to thank you for this blog. All of the sleep books are sometimes very general and don‚Äôt seem to always address specific questions. This blog has helped me a lot.
  • Lucie¬†said‚Ķ
    Hi! Again, thank you so much for your time and effort! You are playing a VITAL role helping me work out the kinks of teaching good sleep habits to my Little Man.
  • twinsx3¬†said‚ĶFirst let me say congratulations on the girl! Also, I wanted you to know that this blog has been a blessing to me in the past year. Thanks for continuing it even when you are not feeling well.
  • susanne¬†said‚ĶThanks so much for responding to all our comments. I know that creates a lot of extra work for you, but I know that we all appreciate the time you take to respond to us. I know that I personally have gotten a lot out of all your posts and wisdom. Your blog has been a true God-Sent to me as a first time mom.
    Plowmanators said…
    Thanks Susanne! I really appreciate your words. It means a lot.
  • lisa¬†said‚ĶThanks for keeping us posted; I‚Äôd like to say thank you for this blog as well! We just started BW after Thanksgiving, and went on our first trip away from home for Christmas. Our 3 month old wowed the whole family with his routine of 5 feedings a day, restful naps, and STTN, not to mention his happy demeanor and cheery personality. This blog helped me get through CIO and other various BW questions. Thanks again!! Happy New Year!
    Plowmanators said…
    Thanks for your thanks Lisa! I appreciate it. I am glad things have worked well for you ūüôā

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32 thoughts on “How Babywisemom.com Got Started…Reflections”

  1. And thus, a legend is born! :-)Valerie, I am so grateful to you and all the work you have done on your blog. I can say with certainty that my own BW journey would not have been successful without this invaluable resource. Thank you for all you have done and continue to do!

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  2. I think the reason so many negative sites pop up regarding "Babywise" is that many people have genuinely had problems implementing it. They've had trouble implementing it because "Babywise" doesn't seem to allow room for creativity. I found the tone in the books to be very black and white. They can make new parents feel like a failure if their kids aren't behaving exactly as predicted. I've found your blog to be helpful because it details many different situations and reminds parents that their child is an individual.

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  3. Thanks for all your posts! I have found quite a few tips that have worked wonders for me! I have found most people that bash Babywise just don't understand it – they seem to think it is just about forcing your child on a schedule – when I am using Babywise practices for very different reasons. Ha ha, although I have also found they don't understand why what they are doing isn't working! Thanks again – I love the blog! ūüôā

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  4. I love your blog also, it has been such a help to me with my daughter. She just turned 2 last week, and will be joined by a baby brother next March. I am thankful to be familiar with your older posts so I can re-reference them when the time comes! Thanks for all your efforts. You are appreciated.

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  5. Yes, your blog is a life saver. I found it a few months after you started when I googled "45 minute intruder". I started with those posts and then found CIO Bootcamp and I was hooked! I recommend your blog to anyone I know who does or is interested in BW. Thanks for everything!

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  6. I found out about your blog while searching and reading articles at the Growing Kids God's Way website. I was desperately trying to find some answers to my questions about scheduling, napping, and CIO! The Babywise book is pretty vague sometimes, and I like that your blog goes in depth of this topics. So, I clicked on a link which took me to Chronicles of a Babywise Mom. From there, I found out about the Yahoo Groups and I quickly joined. I definitely would have gotten discouraged and given up if it hadn't been for this blog and group! Thank you!Amy

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  7. Thank you for all the time and effort you put into this blog! I know it is a blessing to many.I have a rather long-winded question for you. We started Babywise with my daughter when she was 6 weeks old (CIO included). She is now almost 12 months old and STILL has to CIO before naps. She was not a 'textbook' babe when we first started CIO; she would have cried for hours had we let her. My husband and I have been very consistent with her feedings & waketimes because I feel it is important to do CIO responsibly. For a while (maybe 4-8mo of age) it seemed a little better; she would only cry 10-15min or so when we laid her down. But the past 3 months have been tough–she will talk/fuss/cry for an hour or more at times. I lay her down for naps at the same time every day, and bedtime is the same also (bedtime is the only time she doesn't CIO; just goes right to sleep). Do you have any suggestions? We have tried troubleshooting everything; waketime lengths, etc, but it is so frustrating. I would greatly appreciate any insight or advice. I know she might just be a baby who needs to 'blow off steam' before naps, but for more than an hour? Ack!!

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  8. So glad you kept it up and also review other books! I found that I am more of a Baby Whisperer mama but a lot of the ideas cross over and I like to see the big picture!

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  9. I am truly so glad that I stumbled across this blog, it's been a lifesaver! It was just nice to know there was someone else out there doing things the same way as me and with the same goals in mind. I never would have found the babycenter.com babywise group if you hadn't mentioned it on your blog actually. Now I don't know what I'd do without all those ladies to chat with!

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  10. I too am glad that I found your "little" blog. I am on my third baby too, born in March of this year. I have done Babywise with all three kids. Not as devoted as you. I have followed it to a degree and done what fits my family to do the rest. But my last kid is still not on a predictable schedule and not sleeping through the night. He started to sleep through the night at 6 months, but then we went to Utah on vacation and he hasn't done it since. I have got to buckle down and get him babywised. I am thinking I will have to do the whole thing with him. I could use some tips on "starting over" at 8 1/2 months.

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  11. Thank you for starting this blog and sticking with it. It has helped me so much. I read Babywise but found it vague and somewhat confusing and when my baby was a few weeks old I googled babywise and found your blog. It has helped me so much in implementing Babywise and understanding my baby!

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  12. when i read babywise i felt like it was pretty stupid at first! i felt like it was too black and white and not really helpful. I started doing the schedule anyway but didn't get serious with it until I found your blog! the -wise publishers should really pay you something because through your blog I am now a HARDCORE babywise mom who does it all and will do allll the -wise series and blogs to other moms and is getting them to do it as well! all thanks to you we have babywise babies!!!

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  13. Then I am forever grateful for Tulipgirl ūüôā Your blog and the yahoo group has been a lifesaver (or rather a sanity saver) for me. I love that your answers come from moral grounds as well and that you are not ashamed to give credit to the Lord for all you do. I'm grateful for the Ezzo's and the books they've written, but without your "commentary", i'd be lost ūüôā Thanks so much and please keep it up!

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  14. So true about the negative BW back in the day. I had my son in 2002 and immediately started BW. I was so bummed when the vast majority of online info regarding BW was so negative. When I had my second earlier this year I was extremely delighted to find your blog. I think there has been a huge change regarding BW on the web….thanks for doing this…I know how challenging it is to implement BW when there's nothing, but adversity from family, friends and the cyber world.

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  15. I found your blog 2 months after my baby girl was born this past June. I had ordered the Babywise book (because I knew I wanted to implement some sort of structure to her day), and while I was waiting for it to arrive, I found your blog. I devoured all the past articles and found I knew what to do before I even got the book! There definitely is a lot of negativity out there regarding Babywise, so thanks for dispensing the "real" truth about it. The results speak for themselves, that's all I can say. Everyone who comes into contact with my baby comments on how happy and alert she is, and she's been sleeping 11.5 hours at night since 3 months.

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  16. I just have to comment, too–thank you!! I would never have survived more than a few weeks of BW without you. And I love that there is now positive info on the web about it… it's amazing how many people condemn BW without understanding it or trying it.

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  17. I've bookmarked more pages on your blog than any other, that is for sure! I know they will be handy references as soon as baby #2 comes along (10 weeks!)…sometimes I feel like I don't even need to read the book–i can just check my google reader ūüôā Thanks for all you do and write!

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  18. Even though we fell into our Babywise groove at around 8 weeks, I still come here to compare newborn weeklies with McKenna. =D She is just a bit older than my Oliver, and it's nice to see what is coming next, you know?Also, you were a big inspiration for me making Oliver's baby food. I wanted you to know that you're not just a Babywise blogger…you're an awesome mommy blogger! I've said it before and I'll say it again. You're invaluable, Val! Thank you for being here…for all of us to look to. =D

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  19. I was looking into your posts from 11/07 and 12/07 wasn't able to find the comments from Tulipgirl. I just have this morbid curiosity to see what that rabble rouser was stealthily trying to do ūüôā Did you have to take them down because they were not very nice?And, yes Valerie, thank you for everything. I know that while Babywise has allowed you a certain amount of "you time" while your little ones nap or rest, it's still very kind of you to use some of that time to keep this blog updated. I appreciate it and feel a certain sense of relief for #2, whenever that happens. I didn't find this blog for a few weeks after my daughter was born and I had months of anxiety because of what those initial weeks were like. I don't feel so alone anymore. Thank you.

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  20. I decided not to use Babywise before my baby was born. This was due not to misinformation (I read both BW and Prep which my mother-in-law had given me), but because 1) BW did not convince me that following its rules was in the baby's benefit; the focus seemed to be on how much easier it was for the parents 2) I was not about to go against all medical advice and not feed on demand 3) I had read a lot of the negative experiences on the web, and was disturbed that many of the most strident anti-BW people are those who at one time followed it with extreme dedication but came to deeply regret it.My baby is 9 months old now, and I still don't use BW, nor would I with a second child. HOWEVER, ūüôā I love this blog, and have found it very very helpful. It turns out that I agree with more BW principles that I had thought before. Or at least with the way you implement BW principles. ūüôā You practice BW with far more gentleness, flexibility, patience, and intelligence than one would ever think the book called for. I have learned a lot, especially about waketime lengths, a detail that I have not seen addressed properly anywhere else (although Weissbluth does in less detail). Your blog is not just for hardcore BW parents; I think that most moms can find helpful information and common ground. Thank you!

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  21. My son is 1 1/2 now so I don't have to come here as often but when he was younger I read all the time! He was a very easy baby and the babywise stuff came naturally but I still had some questions and this is always a place where I can find honest answers and advice. Thanks for all the hard work you put into it! Our 2nd is due in June and I'm sure I'll be back plenty.

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  22. Thank you for taking time to create such a comprehensive blog for babywise. I had my first child about 14 weeks ago and she is an angel. My best friend did babywise so she's been my "mommy mentor" for BW questions, but you have been a great resource when I need that reassurance that I'm doing things right. Thanks again!! I have told ALL my friends about your blog.

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  23. Ben & Rebecca,I really don't know! An hour is a long time. I have heard of up to five minutes, but not an hour. Does she have a medical condition at all? I would wonder about pain of some sort.

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  24. Rebecca, I wanted to tell you that I used your question for the first ever "help a reader out" post. Hopefully you will be able to get some input!

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  25. Allison, see the post "starting BW late."I think that I would start with making sure meals and naps are consistent. Once you have that down, I would introduce independent play if you do that. The rest should just come naturally for you ūüôā

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  26. TeamOSM, you are welcome! I am glad that I inspired you to make babyfood. I wish I would have dared do it with Brayden and Kaitlyn! I am glad you started out from the beginning ūüôā

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  27. Michael and Natalie,I took them off the post and put them in their very own ūüôā If you look under "debates" you will find it all.I know how you feel about anxiety over the first few weeks! We didn't start BW until Brayden was 9 weeks old, and even though I have had two awesome newborn experiences with Kaitlyn and McKenna, I still dread newborn time. First impressions ūüôā

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