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valplowman

Valerie, also known as The Babywise Mom, is the mother to four children. She has been blogging on Babywise and general parenting since 2007. She has a degree in technical writing and loves using those skills to help parents be the best parents they can be! Read her book, The Babywise Mom Nap Guide, to get help on sleep from birth through the preschool years. You can also find her writing at Babywise.life, Today Parenting, and Her View From Home. Read more about Valerie and her family on the About page. Follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram for more tips and helps.

The Problem with Credit Card Parenting

April 22, 2019 by valplowman
Parents holding the hands of a toddler

Why you should not wait for your baby, toddler, or child to get older and “easier” before you face a problem. Face it now before the problem grows.  Have you …

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Categories Discipline Tags Babywise II, prevention 6 Comments

McKenna Preteen Summary: 10 Years Old

May 24, 2023April 18, 2019 by valplowman
10 year old McKenna in St. George, Utah

This is a summary for McKenna. She is now ten years old! This summary covers from 9 years 9 months old through 10 years old. The life of a 10 …

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Categories Preteen Tags Preteen Summary 2 Comments

5 Tips for Making Laundry Easier and More Tolerable!

April 18, 2019April 16, 2019 by valplowman
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How to make laundry day easier. These tips are fantastic for families. Find products to make the day easier and how to get kids involved.  If you have been reading …

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Categories Home Tags BFBN, laundry 7 Comments

Train To Obey Your Voice

May 26, 2021April 12, 2019 by valplowman
Girl looking at wildflowers

Why you want to train your child to obey you rather than just memorize rules of what is okay to do and what is not okay to do.  “The goal …

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Categories First Time Obedience Tags baby-proofing, Babywise II, obedience 7 Comments

5 Rules for Giving Kids Instructions

March 23, 2021April 11, 2019 by valplowman
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The five principles for instruction. Five rules to follow when you give your child an instruction. Always keep these things in mind.  On Becoming Babywise II lists five principles to …

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Categories Discipline Tags Babywise II, consistency, context, yes mom Leave a comment

Macro vs. Micro Cleaning: Cleaning Personalities

May 14, 2019April 10, 2019 by valplowman
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Understand your cleaning personality and preference. Learn about macro versus micro cleaning to understand yourself and your family members.  Have you ever looked at someone’s idea of “clean” and scratched …

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Categories Cleaning 14 Comments

Discipline Phrase: “I didn’t ask if you wanted to…”

June 14, 2019April 9, 2019 by valplowman
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How to respond when your child tells you he doesn’t want to do what you have instructed him to do. Respond without anger or yelling.  I find it really helpful …

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Categories Discipline Phrases 28 Comments
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Valerie Plowman

Valerie Plowman, known as "the Babywise Mom", is the happy mother of four children. She has been helping parents with their parenting concerns since 2007 and loves helping others absolutely love being a parent.

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