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valplowman

Valerie, also known as The Babywise Mom, is the mother to four children. She has been blogging on Babywise and general parenting since 2007. She has a degree in technical writing and loves using those skills to help parents be the best parents they can be! Read her book, The Babywise Mom Nap Guide, to get help on sleep from birth through the preschool years. You can also find her writing at Babywise.life, Today Parenting, and Her View From Home. Read more about Valerie and her family on the About page. Follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram for more tips and helps.

Brayden Preteen Summary: 10.75 Years Old

March 23, 2026March 23, 2016 by valplowman
Brayden and his family with Brayden holding the Arrow of Light Award

Wondering what the preteen years are really like? This honest snapshot of life at 10–11 years old shares growth, challenges, and insights to help you understand and guide your child …

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How To Get Stuff Done as a Busy Mom

March 23, 2026March 22, 2016 by valplowman
Mom holding a baby and a mixing bowl with an exasperated look on her face

Life doesn’t slow down — but you can get smarter about how you manage it. Get 10 practical tips for tackling your to-do list efficiently so you still have time …

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Responding to “You’re Lucky” Comments as a Parent

December 19, 2022March 17, 2016 by valplowman

It is frustrating to be told you are “lucky” your child sleeps well when you have worked so hard to make that happen. Here is how to respond to those …

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Brinley Preschooler Summary: 43 Months Old

March 16, 2026March 15, 2016 by valplowman
3.5 year old Brinley wearing butterfly glasses and her mom wearing normal sunglasses

Real 3.5-year-old daily schedule & development! Boundary pushing before 3.5 then total relaxation. Fighting independence vs staying “free” (three!), went through 3 boxes of tissues in a day, favorite toys. …

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What Age Should You Start Cry It Out?

March 16, 2026March 14, 2016 by valplowman

Wondering when to start cry it out? Most agree 16 weeks-6 months is the sweet spot for least crying & fastest success. But trust your gut—every baby is different. Plus, …

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How To Have a Good Sleeper

June 22, 2021March 7, 2016 by valplowman

When your baby doesn’t sleep well, it can drive you to the brink of insanity. You are worried about why baby won’t sleep well. You are emotional because you can’t …

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Categories Sleep Tags BFBN 2 Comments

Don’t Feel Guilty About Ebbs and Flows of Parenting

March 9, 2026March 4, 2016 by valplowman
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Parenting is full of mistakes, regrets, and guilt. You’ll mess up. You’ll give too many freedoms, keep baby awake too long, handle discipline wrong. Then you’ll nail it perfectly—until you …

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Categories Parenting Tags word to the weary 2 Comments
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Valerie Plowman

Valerie Plowman, known as "the Babywise Mom", is the happy mother of four children. She has been helping parents with their parenting concerns since 2007 and loves helping others absolutely love being a parent.

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