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valplowman

Valerie, also known as The Babywise Mom, is the mother to four children. She has been blogging on Babywise and general parenting since 2007. She has a degree in technical writing and loves using those skills to help parents be the best parents they can be! Read her book, The Babywise Mom Nap Guide, to get help on sleep from birth through the preschool years. You can also find her writing at Babywise.life, Today Parenting, and Her View From Home. Read more about Valerie and her family on the About page. Follow her on Facebook, Pinterest, and Instagram for more tips and helps.

Brinley Preschooler Summary: 43 Months Old

March 16, 2026March 15, 2016 by valplowman
3.5 year old Brinley wearing butterfly glasses and her mom wearing normal sunglasses

Real 3.5-year-old daily schedule & development! Boundary pushing before 3.5 then total relaxation. Fighting independence vs staying “free” (three!), went through 3 boxes of tissues in a day, favorite toys. …

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Categories Preschooler Tags preschooler summary Leave a comment

What Age Should You Start Cry It Out?

March 16, 2026March 14, 2016 by valplowman

Wondering when to start cry it out? Most agree 16 weeks-6 months is the sweet spot for least crying & fastest success. But trust your gut—every baby is different. Plus, …

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Categories Sleep Training Tags CIO 10 Comments

How To Have a Good Sleeper

June 22, 2021March 7, 2016 by valplowman

When your baby doesn’t sleep well, it can drive you to the brink of insanity. You are worried about why baby won’t sleep well. You are emotional because you can’t …

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Categories Sleep Tags BFBN 2 Comments

Don’t Feel Guilty About Ebbs and Flows of Parenting

March 9, 2026March 4, 2016 by valplowman
Mom and baby with the back to the camera looking out over the ocean

Parenting is full of mistakes, regrets, and guilt. You’ll mess up. You’ll give too many freedoms, keep baby awake too long, handle discipline wrong. Then you’ll nail it perfectly—until you …

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Categories Parenting Tags word to the weary 2 Comments

How I got rid of my “mask of pregnancy”

May 13, 2026March 3, 2016 by valplowman
Woman taking a vitamin

7 years of melasma. Years of hair loss. Nothing worked—until one random vitamin aisle discovery changed everything. My mask of pregnancy vanished & my hair stopped falling out in handfuls. …

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Going to Your Kids’ Games Prepared

March 9, 2026March 2, 2016 by valplowman
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Soaked feet. Freezing bones. 100-degree heat. Welcome to spring soccer season! After 7 years as sports parents, we’ve learned what equipment actually works to survive outdoor games. From the must-have …

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Categories Extra Curricular Tags sports 3 Comments

To the Mom of the First-Born Poor Sleeper

March 9, 2026March 1, 2016 by valplowman
Baby with arm in the air and a big smile

To every exhausted first-time mom: Your baby won’t nap longer than 45 minutes. You’re doing everything “right” but still failing. You’re not alone. This heartfelt letter reminds you that you’re …

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Categories Motherhood, Sleep Problems Tags 45 minute intruder, first time mom, word to the weary 3 Comments
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Valerie Plowman

Valerie Plowman, known as "the Babywise Mom", is the happy mother of four children. She has been helping parents with their parenting concerns since 2007 and loves helping others absolutely love being a parent.

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