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self control

Should You Correct Kids for Attitude?

February 12, 2026October 2, 2024 by valplowman
Brayden in the caboose of a train ride

Will you ruin a child if you correct their attitude? Can children really learn to have a positive attitude instead of a negative one? Learn why you should correct for …

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Categories Child, Discipline, Preteen Tags attitude, emotions, self control Leave a comment

Why You Should Teach Your Toddler to Have Self-Control NOW

February 8, 2021February 14, 2011 by valplowman
Toddler sitting still and happy

There are many good reasons to teach the foundational virtue of self-control to your toddler now rather than waiting until he is older. Sometimes, training our children, from baby to …

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Categories Discipline Tags Babywise II, hitting, self control, virtues 2 Comments

Immediate Happiness Should Not Be a Parent’s End Goal

November 20, 2024April 19, 2010 by valplowman
Upset toddler

The reason you should sometimes allow your child to be unhappy in the moment to help him/her be happy long-term down the road. While we all want our children to …

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Categories Parenting Tags Babywise II, self control, word to the weary 6 Comments

Hand Folding: Establishing Self-Control

November 4, 2022February 18, 2008 by valplowman
child folding hands

How to use hand folding to help your little one gain control and stop misbehaving. This simple tool works! In Toddlerwise, it talks about the idea of hand folding. This …

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Categories Discipline, Discipline Methods Tags self control 8 Comments
Valerie Plowman

Valerie Plowman, known as "the Babywise Mom", is the happy mother of four children. She has been helping parents with their parenting concerns since 2007 and loves helping others absolutely love being a parent.

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