Monday, April 20, 2009

Blanket Time Info

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As you read through the various -wise books, it is very easy to miss the information on blanket time. I missed it the first couple of times I read through Toddlerwise, and then I had a hard time finding information on it when I tried to.

In On Becoming Toddlerwise, blanket time is mentioned on pages 45 and 48. Page 45 says for toddlers between ages 14-18 months to do time on a blanket 2-3 times a week for 10-15 minutes at a time. The purpose of this is to teach parameter skills. Page 48 says for toddlers between ages 14-20 months to do it in the place of roomtime at first, starting with 5 minutes at a time each day. You then work up to 30 minutes or longer.

So what does that mean for you? I know several moms who start blanket time well before 14 months old. I know some who never use it at all. The age you start it would really depend on your child. You can put a completely immobile 8 month old on a blanket to play, but if he can't move anywhere it isn't true blanket time. That doesn't mean you can't start doing it--it can be useful to teach the habit before he has the option of moving, but he isn't exercising any sort of personal restraint by staying on the blanket when he couldn't move off of it in the first place.

Ultimately, here is my take on blanket time. Blanket time is not something well defined in the -wise books. I say you take blanket time and make it what you see your toddler in need of. Does your toddler need help learning boundaries? Does he lack some focusing skills? Do you have a need for blanket time in situations such as church? Use blanket time as needed in your home. Personally, I like the use of blanket time as a time to teach parameter skills. I consider it a a structured playtime situation. Again, use blanket time as you see fit for your child and your family's situation.

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28 comments:

atara said...

My boy is 6 months and we do playpen time and blanket time. Just an observation: I can't do them both in the same wake period because both are independent play. After his playpen time he doesn't want more time on the blanket by himself. Don't forget that timers can help train them too!

Shawna said...

I need to some tips on how to start independent play time. My 14.5 month old always wants me to play with him the whole time he is awake. It is so hard to get anything done. I have used a playpen in the past and all he does is stand there and scream. I am due in June with baby #2 and I really want him to be more independent. Also, any tips for CIO with the new baby? I am afraid the baby will wake my toddler.(So far my toddler has been a great sleeper) Thanks so much! Your blog is so helpful!

Shawna

LC said...

Did BW with my first...but you're right...I never heard of blanket time. With my first...he was never allowed in the kitchen. Something we started implementing when he started rolling/crawling. he would just stand at the of the kitchen and never enter it. It was pretty cool. My 2nd is 6 wks old this Thurs and I will do blanket time when she is a toddle. Thanks, as always, for sharing!

The McDowells said...

I can use some help with naptimes. I have a 4 year old, 2 year old and 5 1/2 month old. The 4 year old and 2 year old share a room. For naps, I split them up, the younger one was in our room in the pack and play. Now he has figured out how to crawl out of the pack and play and getting him to stay in it is a power struggle. I will take any advice I can get, what would you do in this situtation?

Thanks for your blog! It has been a help and great to see how others use Babywise!

Angela said...

Hmmm...never heard of Blanket Time and honestly, I love Playpen Time and Room Time so much, I don't know that I need Blanket Time all that much. LOL

Kyle, Amanda, and Tobias said...

I'm so glad you made this post. I was about to reread the -wise books actually because I saw a lot of moms doing it at 8 months and Tobias is 10 months already. But I never remembered reading about it, lol! I felt so dumb, haha! We've been doing playpen time for a long time and that's gone well but I'm still undecided on blanket time. Tobias is just starting to move so i suppose this would be the time to start. I'll have to think about that, but this post helps a bit to clarify the purpose and origination of blanket time :)

Connie said...

We are very fortunate to live near the Ezzo's and they taught us our Toddler wise class. They recommended starting blanket time before babies are mobile, just like playpen time. Start with 5 min once a day and use the timer. Work up from there. I however forgot to incorporate it and so we started blanket time after my first was already mobile and had to put it to rest for awhile as it was a huge battle.

She then began to do blanket time very successfully at 2yrs and it has been most helpful in other life situations. For example if we are at someone else's home I can instruct her to play within a rug's boundaries while we visit and she will obey. I will start BT with my 2nd (now 3mo) as soon as he can sit up and see how he does if those boundaries are placed before he becomes mobile :) This is the same time alot instruction begins in the high chair etc and baby is still very interested in pleasing Mom so tons of praise!

Plowmanators said...

Atara, That is an excellent point; you don't want to do two independent playtimes during one waketime period.

Plowmanators said...

Shawna,

See the blog label "independent playtime" on the right for help with that.

For CIO with new baby, see the CIO blog label. Also see the Baby Whisperer blog label--I didn't have to do CIO with my third by following Hogg's 4 S's.

As far as specifics with your toddler/baby, I would need to know your sleeping situation as far as will they share a room, rooms next to each other, etc.

Plowmanators said...

You are welcome LC!

Plowmanators said...

McDowells, see this post:

Toddler/Child Getting Out of Bed : http://babywisemom.blogspot.com/2008/12/toddlerchild-getting-out-of-bed.html

Plowmanators said...

Angela, you certainly don't have to use anything you don't want to :)

Plowmanators said...

Thanks Amanda. I am glad I am not the only one to have missed it! lol

Plowmanators said...

Thanks Connie! If you start it before they can move, I can see that it would be "just what we do" rather than a new battle.

I agree that there are a lot of possible benefits for blanket time--most of them when you are out of your home! It can make church and visiting friends much easier.

Emily said...

Hi, I'm a big proponent of babywise and books that follow it! It's great to see such a comprehensive blog as yours that encourages and helps parents to understand and implement it! I just wanted to pass along a website that I developed with mom that lends itself to some great 'structured time' activities for newborn to five year olds that you and/or your readers may find useful. www.productiveparenting.com If you like what you see feel free to ahre! Great to have crossed paths with you in the journey of parenting we're on! Emily

Plowmanators said...

Thanks Emily! I will check it out.

Morgan Joy said...

Just ran across your site as I was doing a google search on structured play. Oh how I wish I had found it sooner. Love it! I have done all the -wise books and love them. My daughter (who is currently 12 months old) was sleeping through the night at 3 months, and just weaned from her bottle quickly and easily. But now that she is more mobile, we are having trouble with boundaries and trying to get into "Mommy and Daddy's things." She isn't responding too well to "Don't touch" or "Not for Morgan" or "stop" or "no." I know she is just learning all this, and she is just trying to explore her world, but it's wearing me out. I wanted to incorporate blanket time to teach boundaries. I have read a lot about why to do it and such, but not the legistics of HOW to teach them. I am struggling with how to teach her to stay on the blanket. Any suggestions? Or can you direct me to a spot on your blog that would help? Thanks!

Morgan Joy said...

Hi. I left a few comments on a couple posts relating to playtimes, and I have not heard back. I totally understand that life gets hectic and you have tons to read through, so I am in no hurry. But I wanted to make sure you got them. Thanks!

Brandon & Kelly said...

My daughter is 13 months. She does 45 minutes independent play each morning (and could go longer). We do learning time, free time and outside play each day. She's VERY mobile and always on the move. She's also a strong willed child. Recently we have been struggling with her attention span. Her naps are getting shorter and thus she has more free play. I'm planning to implement blanket time to help. But how long is a reasonable attention span at this age. I have a hard time getting her to sit for even 5 minutes. What is a reasonable goal to work towards?

angie said...

I also have a question about blanket time. My daughter is only 7 months old, but she's crawling like a mad woman and wants to go EVERYWHERE! She knows what "no" means, but she seems to gravitate towards things she shouldn't touch. I just ordered the Babywise II book, but I just read that blanket time isn't in that one. I seriously need to start asap...is there any instruction you can give as to how to implement blanket time? Or any other online resources? thanks!

Plowmanators said...

Morgan Joy, I am so sorry! I really do not get notified of your comments for some reason. I have told you this on another post, but wanted to reiterate, when you have questions, I think you should ask on the current post of the day. There will be other people commenting that I get notified of so I will see your post. Just tell me which posts you have read so I don't send you to one you already read.

Plowmanators said...

Brandon & Kelly,

I am not realy sure what would be reasonable for her age to sit and focus on one thing. Blanket time would help with that. I would think that at her age, 10-15 minutes is reasonable. Once she reaches that, you can see if you can add more time. I think Blanket Time will be a good answer for you in building this up. Take it slowly. She will get there.

Plowmanators said...

Angie, I would use a timer. Put your baby on the blanket along with a few toys. Tell her to stay on the blanket and use your finger to outline the boarder of the blanket. Tell her she can get off when the timer gets off.

Then be prepared to put her on over and over and for her to be frustrated. Start with two minutes. When she crawls off, put her back on and tell her she needs to stay on the blanket. When the timer goes off, tell her good job, kiss her, etc. Once she can stay for two minutes, add some time. Goodluck!

Elaine said...

Dear Valerie, i hope you get to read this and hope that you would give me some advice. Or maybe someone out there who has experience with this who can offer some advice. I am getting desperate. This is related to blanket time. How do i manage crawling baby. Is there a post that deals specifically on this? My problem is I would like to know whether it is a good practice to allow baby to crawl freely in the living room. If so, then how can i implement blanket time? Wouldn't the baby get confused to know when he can crawl freely and when he is supposed to stay within the blanket? If the baby is trained to stay in the blanket, would he then stop practicing crawling? Would that be developmental detrimental to him? Does that mean that when i would like to allow baby to practice crawling freely in the living room, i should take off the blanket? And when I want him not to crawl freely, i should take out the blanket? This is an urgent request, as my baby is now approaching 8 months, and he is very motivated to crawl "long distance".

Plowmanators said...

Elaine,

Is your living room carpeted? If so, then I would just put him down on the carpet when it is okay to crawl around and on a blanket when you want blanket time.

Some people use just one specific blanket for blanket time and other blankets for other things.

You instruct him to stay on the blanket when it is blanket time, and don't when it is not.

empresstra said...

Hi, I have been reading On Becoming Babywise II and it talks about blanket time in a little more detail before moving on to playpen time. It starts om pg 81 just in case anyone is interested.

Plowmanators said...

Thanks Empresstra. That is in the new version of BW II that just came out last year. The older version doesn't talk about it at all. Thanks for pointing out the page number.

Jen P said...

Hi Val,
How do you recommend avoiding power struggles when teaching blanket time? I need to start this with my strong-willed 20 month old son, but anticipate a huge battle/tantrum with a lot of crying when repeatedly putting him back on the blanket.
Do I discipline for the tantrum the way I normally would with a time out? Or just battle through his tantrum/struggles to run away until the timer goes off?
Thanks in advance for any advice you may have!

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