Monday, May 9, 2016

The Cornerstone for Good Naps

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In order to have you baby fall asleep easily on her own and to take a good nap, your baby must be awake for the correct length of time. That is the cornerstone. That is the foundation to build off of. If you do not have waketime correct, nothing else that you have correct will matter. You can't get anything else right enough to still hold up good naps.  

Finding the best waketime--what I refer to as "optimal waketime"--for your baby is not necessarily a fast or easy process. Probably one of the most frustrating parts of the process is that optimal waketime changes throughout your baby's life. What was optimal two weeks ago might be too short today. I don't say that to deter you or to make you decide it isn't worth trying. It is worth it! Just know this is your new thing--being aware of waketime. This is a part of your everyday life now.

So how do you start to find this waketime length? The best place to start is where most babies find optimal. I have created this infographic cheat sheet for you. This is what is typically optimal for most babies in each age range. There are always outliers. There will always be the babies who need shorter waketime than most and the babies who need longer waketime than most. The range varies more as babies get older. Start with what is average and work from there. See my post Optimal Waketime Lengths for help on knowing how to adjust waketime lengths.

You can view this graphic online here. If you click on the graphic, it will enlarge. You can also download a PDF file for free here. You can also purchase my ebook of logs for only $1.00 to have a copy. You will also get my files to help find optimal.

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Katie Gerety said...

Hey Valerie, I also saw your optimal wake time lengths for 12-18 months, but couldn't find the place to comment. I have a 17 month old (nearly 18 months) who is still at 2 naps (I think). I have run into an issue within the past week that has me thinking we might be ready to drop our second nap. The problem is that her morning wake time is only 2 hours and 45 minutes. She sleeps anywhere from 2-2.5 hours when I put her down at that time. Until last week, she would go down for her second nap 3.5 hours later and sleep for 1.5 hours. Within the past week, she is waking up an hour earlier in the mornings, and will NOT take a second nap. She doesn't cry. She just talks to herself for the entirety of nap/rest time. I have tried getting her up at the 4 hour mark in the mornings (shortening that first nap to 1 hour and 15 minutes rather than 2-2.5 hours, but she still doesn't take a nap later in the day. I don't feel like I can drop her second nap, and push her morning wake time up (by 1-2 hours) so quickly, but I also know that her one nap in the morning has her waking up too early to not have a nap in the afternoon. Thoughts?

Valerie Plowman said...

Hi Katie, have you tried shortening that first nap? Make it an hour and then wake her up and the do an afternoon nap? You really need to be able to make it to at least 11 am to do one nap a day. Ideally more like noon-1.

Dr. Farber said...

Hi. My little one will be 10 months old august 17th and just within the last week she stopped taking 2 naps a day that were about an hour to an hour and a half long but now she will only take a 30 minute nap so i have bought
white noise machine for baby to making sure she gets 3 naps during the day.

RESEARCH said...

Hi Valerie,
I'm trying to find a post about where is the best place for a baby to sleep. My baby is five weeks old and we are doing the BW routine. He has been sleeping the day naps in the living room or in a bouncer in my room (both places are quiet, only I'm home). And only during night I'm putting him in his room. sometimes he can stay a whole nap awake, so I'm doubting about how I'm dealing with naps. i would appreciate if there is any post where you write about that or if you can give me any advice. Thank you

Valerie Plowman said...


I would get him into a more private place before too long. He will wake up more and more and not be able to sleep through noise.

Emily Lancaster said...

Valerie-- My baby is just now 8 months old and has been having a really tough time taking his morning nap. He sleeps 730pm-7am most every night. Two weeks ago, he would go down without fuss for at least an hour around 8:45/9am. This week, not so much. He actually doesn't seem tired at all which I know is untrue. I've let him cry for over 30 minutes and still not settling into a nap. Any thoughts on what I should do here? Thank you!!


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