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mom not baby decides

Tips To Spend Just Enough Time With Kids Each Day

June 16, 2020 by valplowman
Mom reading with two children

Find out how to structure your day so you get a good balance of time with your child each day and giving your child independent time each day. Many parents …

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Categories Parenting, Preschoolwise, Schedule Tips Tags independent playtime, learning, mom not baby decides 7 Comments

Tips to Get Baby Waking Up Happy from Naps

October 4, 2024September 18, 2019 by valplowman
Happy Baby

Your baby CAN wake up happily. In fact, waking up happy is a good sign baby is getting her sleep needs met. Read this for tips on how to achieve …

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Categories Naps, Sleep Problems Tags mom not baby decides, poll results, waking up happy 31 Comments

Start as You Mean to Go On as a Parent

January 7, 2021August 7, 2008 by valplowman
Start as You Mean to Go On as a Parent. Do not start habits you will later want to break or allow habits you will later want to break.

Start as You Mean to Go On as a Parent. Do not start habits you will later want to break or allow habits you will later want to break. Just …

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Categories Funnel, Schedule Tips Tags Baby Whisperer, hogg, milestones, mom not baby decides, prevention 7 Comments

“Mom, not baby, decides…”: What that means

March 18, 2025April 30, 2008 by valplowman
mom kissing baby

What is meant by “mom, not baby, decides” as discussed in the Babywise books? What does that look like in practice? Mom, not baby decides. How to apply this Babywise …

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Categories Discipline, Schedules Tags babywise theory, mom not baby decides, PDF 4 Comments
Valerie Plowman

Valerie Plowman, known as "the Babywise Mom", is the happy mother of four children. She has been helping parents with their parenting concerns since 2007 and loves helping others absolutely love being a parent.

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    How to Dress Your Child for Better Sleep: Finding the Optimal Temperature

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